Sunday, October 01, 2006
What A Girl Wants

Sometimes when we cry...

the last thing we need is for you to say
"Don't cry."
or
" Be Strong."
because we know that already.
we are stronger than you think we are.
and we have the ability to console ourselves better than you can ever console us.

all we really need is...
"It's okay to cry. Let it all out if it makes you feel better. I'll be here for you."
we need to know that you're there.
we need someone strong whom we can rely on.
all we need is that shoulder, that hug, that warmth and that love we feel in your single touch.

why can't men just understand that women let out their frustration and relieve stress in a different way as them?
sometimes all we need is to cry.
let us do our crying.
i promise you that after it all we'll feel so much better and think better too.
if you let us do our crying, you don't even need to wreck your brains on what to say.
we don't need to hear what you have to say because there is nothing to be said and nothing to be addressed (not unless we say there is).

Sometimes men think they know our emotions better than us.
Bullcrap!
You think you know why we're crying...
because we are weak?
because we're too dependent on you?
because we just want attention and are too needy?
nonsense!
Men always say we shouldn't cry.
We should this way and that...
we should think a certain way...
blah blah blah.

"Why are you torturing yourself this way? WTH are you crying? Crying is useless. It'll not make you feel better."
You think you know us better than we know ourselves?
We are in no way torturing ourselves.
If anything, crying helps us.

If you're the kind of guy who is afraid of a girl crying and put it to her that she is not allowed to cry.
Then you are just a coward and a loser.
Learn to accept that she is this way.
Even if you're going to run away from this girl...
any other girl that comes by your way...
with a strong facade or not...
she still needs her crying and Will do her crying when she needs to.

Learn to deal with it already!


*it's a general entry... so don't take it too personally darlin'